Whose Watching?

When we were little, we were supervised.  As we grew, in school and around our homes, there was less supervision.  As adults, some of us have very little supervision.  It may seem like there is no time when you are not alone, if you have a big family.  Or you may not be around other people much at all.

We all have time alone.  Everyone has some time when no one is watching.

I believe that is when our character is exhibited.  What we do when no ones watching determines our real goals and our core values.

Scripture tells us that God has called heaven and earth as witnesses against us, that He has set before us death and life, blessing and cursing.  “Therefore,” He says, “Choose Life, that you and your descendants might live.”

In the Book of the Revelation we are told that things are written in Books and the Book of Life.

So, even when we think no one is watching us, there are witnesses to our behavior.

I submit that even if you are not a believer, the results of behavior are often seen.  People may not understand why your family is strong and confident, but they will surmise that you are a health member of that family.  If your children cower around you and act out when you are not around, they will assume you are at least part of the problem.  People see.

No matter how insignificant you think your life is, someone is watching.

The reason that I do a lot of the things I do is because I believe God is watching.  I’m not so much afraid of His wrath at wrongdoing as much as I want to please Him.  So, I give to the poor, I take care to respect all the people around me without regard to their status, I am careful to take care of animals with kindness, I honor my commitments with every fiber of my being, and I advocate for others.

I cannot imagine life any differently.  We don’t have a whole set of dinnerware or cutlery or nice cars, but we have peace and we have people who are better off because of our relationships.

When nobody is watching, the truth is shown.  Next time you see someone blustering and self promoting, remember that.  Look beyond the hype.  Step back and see the whole picture of their lives.  Who is keeping them accountable? What do the people closest to them say?  Whose behavior gives you a clue about their private dealings? Can you see the fruit of the character?

Whose watching you?